Monday, August 11, 2014

Using Crisis to Create: The Asher James Foundation

In June, Sisters by Heart President, Stacey Lihn, presented at the Mended Little Hearts' National CHD Symposium.  Following, she was able to meet and talk with HLHS parents across the country.  Jen DeBouver is one of many parents that inspired Stacey, and we've asked Jen to share her journey and advocacy efforts - to educate parents on the risks of blood clots in our CHD community and how you might be able to help.
The Asher James Foundation
by Jennifer DeBouver



When I was pregnant with my son, my second child, I thought nothing could go wrong – not this time. I had just lost my daughter Olivia at 27 weeks. She no longer had a heartbeat the doctor told us. When it came around 26 weeks of pregnancy with Asher, I was a nervous wreck. My husband and I were at a 26 week check-up when the ultrasound tech left to get the doctor. I couldn’t believe something was happening again around the same time as Olivia. When the doctor returned, he told us that he wanted us to get a second opinion on Asher’s heart because he saw something but wanted to make sure.

We had an echo done and found out that Asher had Aortic Stenosis. The doctor gave us two options – wait until he was born in which his heart defect would develop into HLHS or have a fetal intervention. As a parent we wanted to do the best possible thing for our baby so we decided to do the fetal intervention. A week later we flew from Chicago to Houston to have the fetal intervention.

When we got to Texas Children’s, it was a full day of testing to see if we were a candidate for the fetal intervention. This is when we learned that in a week, Asher’s heart had gotten worse. He had developed coarctation of the arch and had leaks in his mitral and tricuspid valve. The cardiologist started crying and told us that our baby had no idea that he was sick. We met with the entire team and one of the doctors told us that without the fetal intervention, Asher wouldn’t make it to birth and that it was a Hail Mary that he would make it through the procedure. Asher was born on September 10, 2012, at 36 weeks – 9 weeks after the fetal intervention. After we had a very successful fetal intervention, we started calling Asher our little Fighter. Hours after being born, he had to have a cath procedure to re-inflate the balloon that was inserted during the fetal intervention. At 11 days old, he underwent his first surgery to fix his aortic arch.

Asher rocked every procedure and was doing amazing. But at 4 weeks old all that changed. One day Asher looked amazing and then the next he started looking red and puffy and continued getting puffier from there. After 2 days of being swollen, we found out that blood clots had developed in his jugular veins and arms, restricting blood flow from his head to his heart. The hematologist tried different medications on him, some seemed to work and some didn’t. She told us that they were using scaled down adult medications because there aren’t any medications designed for children. She also told us that there weren’t any foundations supporting blood clots in children.


Asher lived for 6 weeks before he lost his battle to these blood clots on October 23, 2012. After everything that his hematologist told us, I knew that I wanted to continue Asher’s fight by starting a foundation in his memory for children’s blood clots. So a few months later, my husband and I started the Asher James Congenital Heart Disease & Thrombosis Foundation. We wanted to let others know that their children were at risk for clots when hospitalized because we had no idea this could happen until it happened to us.

This year we held our first Children’s Blood Clot Awareness Day at Ann & Robert H. Lurie Children’s Hospital of Chicago to inform families and staff of blood clot awareness. We spoke on Capitol Hill to both Congress and the Senate on children’s blood clots and shared Asher’s story.

In the Fall, we are holding our first blood clot awareness walk. We know that Asher is still with us and is making a difference in children’s lives and we continue his fight through awareness, and one day, research in children’s blood clots. Find out more about our foundation at

Thank you, Jennifer, for sharing Asher's story and your courageous fight to raise awareness and answers for both the CHD community and all children at risk for thrombosis.  Feel free to "like" the Asher James Foundation on Facebook at and show Jen your support by commenting on the Foundation's page and/or sharing your story about how thrombosis/blood clots affected your CHD journey. 


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